And we all feel for that person, because they thought they met someone single and special, and it was doomed from the beginning." "And then of course, sometimes the person is just another victim of the cheater, who said she/he was single.
But in their heart, they know it’s trash reasoning, and they will feel like s**t in the end. "Many times it’s the low self-esteem of lying to themselves that 'if it’s meant to be' or 'the cheater wouldn’t cheat if things weren’t really bad.' 'I’ve never felt this way before, it must be right,' etc. "As for the person they cheat with… sometimes kind of the same thing… they hate themselves to the point of having to get the high of stealing what’s not theirs? 'One up' another man or woman, so to speak."
One can hate themselves so badly, that they cheat to prove to themselves that 'they still got it' or 'they win at life,' but it usually leads to just more drama, like they cheat to hurt someone else (that’s where malice comes in)." "I don’t think malice is usually the root of cheating, I think low self-esteem is. One Similarity Between Bullying and Cheating: Self-Esteem
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